How to be charismatic

How to be charismatic

> Sometimes we encounter in our lives people have us our emotions, have attractive personalities affect those who come into contact with, and all of us wish to possess such characters, and of course there are fundamental constituents of those figures you've mentioned some of them in a previous article entitled (the art of dealing .. key to the hearts of the people) was talking about the art of the deal in general, while here it some privacy .. and we will focus to talk about in this article explicitly and without any reservations

The basic components of a personal attractive

First - appearance makes you more attractive: because the shape first thing that attracts the eye, and act as a traffic ticket to the hearts had to be to put it in first priority .. and that we give adequate attention, and of course I do not mean here purpose of procreation is not able to change, but I mean elegance and good grooming, and attention to personal hygiene Kalozafar and care form, being careful to quiet perfume and beautiful setting, because most scents cause headaches and raises for some sensitivity and thus feel of Tjalshm upset, in addition to the scents - as well as male - not suitable for councils and indoor .

We have to realize that it is not a requirement that one of us wearing the most expensive clothes and buys most precious perfumes to achieve this end, but this is done through interest in harmony between colors, even if characterized by simplicity.

Try to look like a smile Hacha Pasha, Valaptsamp know their way to the heart, never be incompatible with the dignity, the exact opposite of laughter because this makes you more attractive.

Secondly - Etiquette nurse's aid make you more attractive: When you sit with a try as much as possible that he took all your interest and Ti_agl given to the earth, and is keen on its adhesion, it may be with you what Anfarh you, and reduced the movement and pay attention they are foolish guide, and watch out for all your moves for you You may overlook and do some bad habits, and try to make all your thinking in an interview with the interviewer may ask you for a point and can not answer that takes boring speech that does not appeal to you.

When you visit, try as much as possible to be mild, and not to prolong a private stay if you are the only visitor or stranger in a family community or homogeneous, and you have to choose the appropriate times to visit, and to be as much as possible the invitation, and even though I saw applauded for Majalcetk not abound of his visit, but that invited you people even do not look troublesome boring regret that know you, and you must not only sit in the place chosen by you.

Try not to use your mobile phone to conduct your communications during Ajtmaekma, and not only of the need to use or to respond to touch a low voice and quietly and be briefly respond, do not extend your hand to use his phone only to the need for the permission.

No intersection of asking her permission disperse during caused you, and if she asked do not speak anything but praise for the beautiful hospitality to you, and you should not talk to him for one that he dislikes, nor his mistakes or lapses appear in front of one, this will give the impression you think you are worth that invites one to his home.

The event and invited you to food, try as much as possible to apologize, but he brought no abound from eating, even if you're hungry, do not eat quickly, do not talk with your mouth food, and gave you coffee or tea careful not to drink only after the drink is of Kobe has it be what you hate It is located in a very awkward.

Try as much as possible not to look for the body of the Council and the furniture in his presence, and moved away from the curiosity of those around you what to read newspapers and magazines and papers, do not extend your hand to anything that your eyes fall upon these recipes ugly.

Try to be moderate in your living, some sit conditions reflect the bad manners, and stretch out your legs around him, do not put a man on the man.

At the beginning of attendance Tsabgah not to enter, and when you do not leave him out to give him the opportunity that would fit your place.

Familiarize yourself to control your actions and stay away from bad habits Kalabut in the teeth, ears, nails and nose, they are repulsive acts provoke disgust and Alastqmar, and try yawning not appear and could not keep your mouth shut or filled with your hand, Valtthaab recipe reprehensible legally and conventionally, the opening of the mouth where expresses a lack of taste and literature.

Thirdly - Etiquette talk make you more attractive: Try to be attentively and listener more than to be speaking, and thought well in the character of your words before you pronounce it, and Select your vocabulary well, and do not talk with does not grasp it or what You do not have sufficient information, and raise your voice, but spoke in a calm and normal, nor interlocutor intersection Bhdazq even if you have an explanation or protest what did not go you Bastidah or question, do not abound of objections, even if you're right, though you must be an active, try to be nice and tactful manner and tried to be talking in the same area in which your event do, not take the initiative in opening a new room to talk until you know the trends of sit with, he speaks to no suits him or touch him, though it is imperative that you start talking tried to pick topic interesting, and is keen to talk with incredible even if it is already a real event, and is keen to dwell Bhdazq, and give of Ajalsk that shares the opportunity, and stayed away from backbiting and gossip and frequent criticism.

If the Qakma is you do not talk too much about yourself so as not to look in his eyes a narcissist, nor will cost not in you, and you have to speak the words understood, and focus your thoughts so they look more confident on your own, and not too much to talk about your business and your own life seems loquacious You do not have any privacy, and look for areas of common public talk.

Even if your meetings with him many there are special things that is not worthy of you talk about in your own life, and also ask in their own affairs, and that he tried to talk about you tried to get away in talking about where to go, even though there was a fair share.

Fourthly - Asahbhoualemhafezh rights make them more appealing: Now we get to the second phase of a good deal after he passed the dating stage, to know the rights and limits of others and go beyond them, it is easy for us to win the love of the people, but to maintain this balance is difficult.

The most important comrades rights you maintain what is going on between you and them, and save them with affection and respect, and to move away from the heavy banter and talk Garah, literature and discipline are required with all the people until relatives from you regardless of the degree of relationship and proximity, it is cultivated love does not reap only love, To know that people do not like a mirror reflecting only what is in front of them.

Try to move away from selfishness and self-love, it makes you an outcast Etjnbug others, and even though plagued tried to get rid of them gradually, and it may seem difficult but not impossible, and trained yourself to control your temper and stay away from anger, A dream source of happiness to you because it brings you closer to people in God in this world and the hereafter.

Do not be to Oama, nor Mtberma many arguments, not in pride as though not miserly, but missed hasten to apologize, and deal with others openly and frankly Mtelmusa kindness and gentleness in and away from the rudeness and lack of taste, and you'll modesty and humility they prophets attributes, and tried to move away from the transfer of the bad news until people between you and them not connecting, remember that not everyone knows what is said.

Tried to appear cooperative with people when they ask you to help, do not embarrass anyone in the district of your needs, and be sure to take advantage of happy occasions in congratulations, sympathy and do not forget the painful events. In these cases established acts and attitudes in mind.

Select the appropriate times always need to ask, and that happened and that happened to you when you need one and the time is appropriate Vgd of the request lose it is better for you to lose one of your relationship with them.

If you're standing or sitting with a group and you want to leave asked for permission not suddenly go off even if they are not talking with you, and if you stopped at a newspaper vendor and Hdk address in one of which is not picked up to read, but take it and pay for it and then read it away, and if I sat next to a to read a book or magazine hijacks the newspaper or do not consider it to be read, this behavior is unacceptable in all societies.

If I phoned one of your acquaintances do not prolong talk to him and ask him if he was busy, and if your phone is outlined in your words and do not talk with him in matters of lengthy explanations may be busy and ashamed to apologize to you and try to make ending the conversation is always in his hand.